❶ 求一篇关于爱情的英语作文
The Positive Meanings of Love
We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us.
Love means that I know the person I love. I'm aware of the many sides of the other person — not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and faults. I have an awareness of the other's feelings and thoughts, and I experience something of the core of that person. I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.
Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now. By taking people as they are, we make them worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be, we help make them better.
To sum it up, mature love is union under the condition of preserving one's indiviality. In love, two beings become one and yet remain two.
❷ 写一篇关于爱情的英语作文
In the beginning, love is always sweet.As time is slipping away, boredom, be used to, abandonment, loneliness, despair and cold smile will come graally.
Once being eager to stay with someone forever, later, we would felicitate
ourselves on leaving him/her.
During those transient days, we thought we loved him/her deeply.Then, we got to know it is not love but a lie by which we comfort
ourselves.
(开始的开始总是甜蜜的。后来就有了厌倦、习惯、背弃、寂寞、绝望和冷笑。曾经渴望与一个人长相厮守,后来,多么庆幸自己离开了?曾几何时,在一段短暂的时光里,我们以为自己深深的爱着的一个人。后来,我们才知道,那不是爱,那只是对自己说谎。)
It is turned out that those who you thought you could not lose, actually, it
is not very hard to forget them. You drained up your tears, there will be another one pleasing you.
You had plunged yourself into a depression, finally, you found those who do not love you are not worthy of your sadness.
Recalling those unhappy things, is it a comedy? When your wrong love
stops its steps, a brand-new world will be shown to you.
All sadness will become history.
(你以为不可失去的人,原来并非不可失去。你流干了眼泪,自有另一个人逗你欢笑。你伤心欲绝,然后发现不爱你的人,根本不值得你为之伤心。今天回首,何尝不是一个喜剧?情尽时,自有另一番新境界,所有的悲哀也不过是历史。)
For love, imagination is often more beautiful than reality. The same with meeting, also with separation.
We thought we would have a deep love toward somebody. Incoming days will let you know in fact it just is very shallow, very shallow.
The most deep and heaviest love must grow up with days.
(爱情总是想象比现实美丽,相逢如是,告别亦如是。我们以为爱得很深、很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅、很浅。最深最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。)
With love, two strangers can suddenly be familiar with each other that they sleep on the same bed.
However, this two similar people,
While breaking up, say,
“I think you are more and more strange to me”
It is love that has two strangers become acquaintances, then turning the two acquaintances into strangers again.
Love is such kind of game which makes two strangers become lovers, then return them into the original situation.
(因为爱情的缘故,两个陌生人可以突然熟络到睡在同一张床上。然而,相同的两个人,在分手时却说,我觉得你越来越陌生。爱情将两个人由陌生变成熟悉,又由熟悉变成陌生。爱情正是一个将一对陌生人变成情侣,又将一对情侣变成陌生人的游戏。)
I believe, love can change you,
Which is the advantage of youth as well as its sorrow.
What has men changed perhaps comes from God’s love or the mercy of Budda, but they are never changed by women.
The prodigal are the most unsuitable person for getting married,
meanwhile, the most suitable one for marriage as well.
It is not women who change the prodigal, she just appear in the very time when the prodigal want to be changed.
(相信爱情可以令一个人改变,是年轻的好处,也是年轻的悲哀。浪子永远是浪子。令男人改变的,也许是上帝的爱或者佛祖的慈悲,但绝对不会是女人。最不宜结婚的是浪子,最适宜结婚的也是浪子。往往不是女人改变一个浪子,而是女人在浪子想改变的时候刚好出现。)
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,campus love is found everywhere.No matter what university you go to,you will see couples of sweethearts strolling past holding hands and sharing their own secrets happily or having some troubles and even quarrel sometimes.Obviously,love on campus seems to be a tendency in college life now.So what lead to the phenomenon?Is it good to fall in love with somebody on campus?
There is no doubt that campus love has some advantages.Facing a heavier stress than before as a undergraate at present,some students need a way to rece their pressure and need someone to listen to their feelings in deep heart.Falling in love with their own sweethearts is a appropriate choice because they can express their truest selves to their lover without reservation.A romantic relationship not only can make each other more mature but increase the experience of dealing with emotional problems.On the other hand,most students,of course,support the view that love is more interesting than study. And what钬檚 more,if you find your lover in your college life and marry with your boyfriend or girlfriend then your marriage will be steadier and happier.When you graate without a lover,you may find it hard to seek out your marriage partner cause there are so many conditions needed to consider after graation.
However,there is no garden without weeds.Campus love seems so wonderful but actually it also has many disadvantages.After all,we are students and our main purposes are study well.Falling in love with someone,to a great extent,will distract you from your studies and influent your prospective career.From another perspective,our living expenses are almost all from our parents and campus love is a heavy financial burden for those students in love.Worst of all,once those couples of lovers face the breakup,they will be confronted with a heavy psychological burden
and problems.They may feel very depressed just because of a small argument.
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❹ 写一篇关于爱情的英语作文
The Positive Meanings of Love
We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us.
Love means that I know the person I love. I'm aware of the many sides of the other person — not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and faults. I have an awareness of the other's feelings and thoughts, and I experience something of the core of that person. I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.
Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. To the extent that it is genuine, my caring is not possessive, nor does it hold the other person back. On the contrary, my caring frees both of us. If I care about you, I'm concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that you can become. Consequently, I don't put up obstacles to what you do that enhances you as a person, even though it may result in my discomfort at times.
Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love. If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity to match an image of what I expect you to be for me. I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you are, and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to satisfy my own needs.
Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love. If I love you, I respond to most of your major needs as a person. This responsibility does not include my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does it mean that I run your life for you. It does mean acknowledging that what I am and what I do affects you, so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your suffering. A lover does have the capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one, and in this sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on you.
Love means making a commitment to the person I love. This commitment does not mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent. It does involve a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain, struggle, and despair, as well as in times of calm and enjoyment.
Love means trusting the person I love. If I love you, I trust that you will accept my caring and my love and that you won't deliberately hurt me. I trust that you will find me attractive, and that you won't abandon me; I trust the mutual nature of our love. If we trust each other, we are willing to be open to each other and reveal our true selves.
Love can tolerate imperfection. In a love relationship there are times when I am bored, times when I may feel like giving up, times of real strain, and times I feel I can't move forward. Authentic love does not imply enring happiness. I can stay ring rough times, however, because I can remember what we had together in the past, and I can picture what we will have together in our future if we care enough to face our problems and work them through. We agree with the idea that love is a spirit that changes life. Love is a way of life that is creative and that transforms. However, love is not reserved for a perfect world. Love is meant for our imperfect world where things go wrong. Love is meant to be a spirit that works in painful situations. Love is meant to bring meaning into life where nonsense appears to rule. In other words, love comes into an imperfect world to make it possible to live.
Love is open. If I love you, I encourage you to reach out and develop other relationships. Although our love for each other and our commitment to each other might prohibit certain actions on our parts, we are not totally and exclusively married to each other. It is a false love that cements one person to another in such a way that he or she is not given room to grow.
Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate, and respect myself. If I am empty, then all I can give you is my emptiness. If I feel that I'm complete and worthwhile in myself, then I'm able to give to you out of my fullness. One of the best ways for me to give you love is by fully enjoying myself with you.
Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now. By taking people as they are, we make them worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be, we help make them better.
To sum it up, mature love is union under the condition of preserving one's indiviality. In love, two beings become one and yet remain two.
爱的真谛
我们想把我们对爱情的一些积极看法跟大家分享。
爱就意味着了解所爱的人。能够认识到这个人多个方面——不仅仅是美好的一面,还有他的局限,他的矛盾之处和他的缺点。要看到对方的情感、思想,感觉他的内心,要能够透过他在社交场合的表现和他的社会角色而看到他内心的深处。
爱就意味着关心所爱之人的幸福。事实上,爱不是占有,也不是束缚。相反,两人都在爱中得到自由。关心一个人就是关心他的成长,希望他可以成为最好的他。因此,我不会为他的个人发展设置障碍,即使这样有时使我难受。
爱就意味着尊重所爱之人。爱一个人,就是将其卸任一个独立的人,有自己的价值观、思想和感情。我不会为自己而坚持要他放弃个性变成我所希望的他。我能允许,也鼓励他我行我素,成为他自己。我不会视他为物,或利用他主要来满足自己的需要。
爱就意味着对所爱之人负责。爱一个人,就要对他作为独立个体的需求做出回应。这种负责并不包括替他做他可以自己做到的事,也不是操纵他的生活。这种负责是承认我的所作所为会影响到他,他的欢乐痛苦都与我直接相关。相爱者确有伤害或忽略所爱的人的能力。从这个意义上说,我们认为,爱就要为自己的行为对对方产生的影响承担某种责任。
爱就意味着对所爱之人做出承诺。这种承诺并非意味着把自己完全交给对方,也并不是说这一关系必然是天长地久,这种承诺否认在平静愉快时,还是困苦挣扎、失意绝望时,都愿意厮守相伴。
爱就意味着信赖所爱之人。爱一个人,就要相信他会接受我的关心,接受我的爱,相信他不会故意伤害我;相信他会认为平静愉快有吸引力,相信他不会抛弃我;相信爱是相互的。如果我们彼此信赖,我们就愿彼此坦诚相待,敞开心扉。
爱能够容忍不完美。爱人之间也会有时感到厌倦,有时想放弃,有时感到压力,有时感到无法前进。真正的爱并不意味着永远的幸福。但是,在困难时期我能坚守,因为我仍记得我们共同度过的日子,我也能想象如果我们愿意面对我们之间的问题、渡过难关、我们将共同拥有什么样的未来。我们一致认为爱是一种能改变人生的精神。爱是一种生活方式,它具有创造和改变的力量。但是爱并不是为完善世界而存在的,爱本来就是我们这个不完美、有缺陷的世界而存在的。爱应该是一种能缓解痛苦的精神力量。爱应该给我们这无聊的生活带来意义。换言之,是爱使我们能够在这不完美的世界上生活下去。
爱是包容的。爱一个人,就要鼓励他与他人建立联系。尽管对彼此的爱与承诺不允许我们有某些行为,这种结合也不是全然排他的。两个人密不可分,再无个人发展的余地,这样的爱是不真实、不明智的。
爱又是自私的。只有真正自爱自重、自赏自尊,才能接受别人。如果自己空虚,那么我能给所爱之人的也只是空虚。如果认为自己是充实的、出色的,那么我就能以自己的充实为所爱之人增光,给对方以爱的最好方法之一就是与所爱之人一起充分体验自己。
爱就要看到所爱之人身上的内在潜力。爱一个人,在接受今日的他的同时,还要了看作明天他会成为的人。视人静止不变,则令其退步,而视其进步发展、如同他的潜力已经发挥,则助其进步。
总而言之,成熟的爱就是在保持个体独立条件下的双方结合。在爱情中,两个人变成了一个人同时还保持着两个独立的个体。